Tera-pies

I know, I know. Let's just not go into any arguments about how I'm not much of a catch either. I'm aware of my own limitations okay? But a guy can dream, can't he? To be fair, it's not really an impossible list either. And it has nothing to do with specific looks(it took me awhile, but I've finally established that I don't actually have a "type"; my taste is simply dictated by whoever I like at that particular moment in time). This is more of a to-do list really; things that I'd expect the "dream woman" to be comfortable and down with. For the sake of simplicity, she shall simply be referred to from this point on as "her".

Mamak/Ramly/Chill makan sessions

This is the easiest, yet at the same time, one of the most essential things I need to be able to do with her, simply because it's the one element that's consistent with every good example of a happy, functioning long term relationship(from parents to friends). A couple who grows fat together, is sure as hell happy together. Ask my folks(I know, I know, you guys dah start slimming down dah, but you know, still a point).

Movie night-ins/pandai just lepak kat rumah

Wajib doh. I think I mentioned this before in one of the earlier posts. Cari alasan nak snuggle je ni. Haha. But why not la kan, alang-alang tengah tengok movie. And regarding the ability to just sit it in, some girls find it a boring routine. To me on the other hand, it's one of the little comforts I never take for granted; just chilling at home with people you actually care about. Priceless.

Explore/Adventure time/Hikes/Climbs/Traveling

So we're still in the do-able territory. But it'd be cool if I can do this EVERY weekend. Any takers?

Cook together

What I'm about to say doesn't apply to ALL the ladies I know, but, MOST of you can't cook for shit. And it's not an insult because many of you willingly admit it yourselves(heck, even my mom acknowledges my dad was the house cook sejak azali lagi, haha). Dah semua aim nak ada maid/personal chef/eat out frequently, kira takyah belajar masak aa kan? Haha, I forgot who told me this, but one of em was so proud that they were able to masak maggi. Awww, *pats head. But yea, it'd be nice to actually cook with someone every now and then. Masak sorang-sorang bosan gak, after awhile.

Quiet time/reading/libraries/galleries/drawing-sketch sessions

As you can see, "chill" is a very apt description for how I prefer to spend most of my time. I'm quite new to galleries. My first time was just recently, when one of my uni-mates dragged me, out of the blue after our class. And it's not all "high brow". We played a game where she points out a painting and I'd rate it from 1-10. It's interesting because we have different systems and tastes, and I now know that I'm apparently a fan of realist paintings over expressionist/abstract ones. But I dunno if I have any kakis back home though. Regarding quiet time, even my closest friends can't handle "awkward silences". Dudes(by dudes I mean dudettes, since I'm talking to the female population here), I'm not purposely trying to make you feel awkward(okay, not true, sometimes I do in fact purposely make a situation awkward...because there's just something fun about making another human being squirm and fidget uncontrollably, clawing unto thin air for conversation topics...I'm a social sadist, I know). Sometimes it's just nice to appreciate each other's company without the need to talk. No? Just me? Okay...

Ditch a boring "up" event for a more lepak night out, still in our fancy getups

Speaks for itself. I dunno, I'm just intrigued by this particular idea.

"Sweet" parkour chase/jump tag

This is basically the jangan harap section of the list. I'll always openly be a child at heart, and I want her to be able to indulge me with such childish endeavours. Tak nak aa serious/grown up selalu. Cepat bosan seh. Dari a lovey-dovey walk in the mall, lagi best lari/lompat merata-rata around downtown kl.

I'll probably add more down the line, or make some up as I go. But yea, yet another reason why I'm still single. Haha.